Transitioning from home into a residential care facility can be challenging for everyone involved, but especially for people living with dementia. However, there are some things that can be done to help make the move a smooth one.

First, consider how much information to share about the upcoming move based on the person’s ability to understand and handle stress. Look for signs from the individual to determine how much information is helpful and how much they would like to be involved in the process. There are also some steps that can be taken before and during the transition to help the person adjust more easily:

  • Personalize the room before admission. Familiar items provide comfort and reassurance.
  • Try to set up the new room, arranging furniture and personal items, in a way that is similar to their old space. Not only will it help increase comfort and familiarity but will help them be more successful in finding their belongings.
  • Choose the right time of day for the move. Many people function better in the morning.
  • Be positive and offer reassurance. Individuals with dementia can be very perceptive and responsive to the emotions of others.
  • Look for ways to ease the transition, such as enjoying the first meal at the facility together.

Be aware that the move may also have an impact on the rest of the family or others close to the person. The following tips can help in coping with the transition:

  • Talk with others. Talking to those who are experiencing similar situations can be extremely helpful. Many people find it helpful to join a support group and/or speak with our dementia experts.
  • Get to know others who may be visiting family at the care facility.
  • Maintain good communication with staff at the facility. Share any concerns and helpful information that can help maintain the quality of care provided.
  • Develop a visitation schedule that is feasible and comfortable.
  • Feel free to bring items to share or activities to work on during visits. This takes the focus off conversation, which may become difficult as the disease progresses.
  • Allow time for adjustment to the new environment. It may take several months for the adjustment to occur.
  • Don’t panic if the person says, “I want to go home.” This may be their way of communicating their desire for something familiar and comfortable. Offer reassurance.

Learn more about caring for people living with dementia by checking out our services and programs page, which are free across San Diego County. We have related education classes, a support group for designed for care partners whose person is living in a care facility, and more. You may also call us at 858.492.4400 to learn about our services or talk with a dementia expert.

Information adapted from the Assisted Living Federation of America, 5/6/2020